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The Stonehaven

10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK

Assisted LivingMemory CareIndependent Living

4.339 reviewsvia A Place for Mom

About the community

About The Stonehaven

At The Stonehaven, we offer a variety of amenities for residents. Residents can enjoy regular off-site adventures and excursions. Cats and dogs are allowed in private quarters. The residence is conveniently located near accessible public transportation. We offer free wi-fi. All meals are provided to residents. We love to accommodate visiting guests, meals included. Dining includes restaurant-style dining and room service. We offer meal services such as vegetarian food and low/no sodium options. The life Enrichment calendar includes Wii Sports Bowling for bowling enthusiasts. We offer Dakim BrainFitness, a clinically-proven brain-training program to help their residents improve and preserve mental functioning. We have specially curated on-site activities that stimulate both mental and physical well-being. Outdoor common areas are designed with accessibility, flow, and movement for residents in mind. Indoor common areas are quiet and a nice place to enjoy the company of fellow residents or just relax. Residents have access to our communal spaces including a fully-stocked arts and crafts center, a bistro, a library complete with a diverse selection of titles, and a movie room. The Stonehaven has 1 and 2-bedroom units for potential residents seeking a roommate, studio units, and companion units for those residents who would like or need a roommate. North, East, South, and West-facing or ground floor units are available. We have free wi-fi for all residents. To accommodate, residents the Stonehaven has air conditioning and temperatures regulated to optimize the comfort of residents and guests. Some apartments are equipped with kitchenettes so that residents can make their own food. Resident quarters featuring roll-in and wheelchair accessible showers are available. The residence also offers free cable satellite TV to all residents. All residents have complimentary access to our transportation services. We offer devotional services onsite, so residents can practice or worship in the privacy of the residence. Personal housekeeping services are provided. We offer Protestant religious services at the residence. Residents may schedule medication and care activities reminders. Associates engage in monitoring residents' blood sugar to tailor daily pill dosages. The residence also offers 2-person assisted transfers, including sitting-to-standing, standing-to-sitting, etc. In addition to other transfer services, we provide 1-person assisted transfers. We offer laundry and dry cleaning services as well. Grocery shopping services are available as needed. The Stonehaven offers respite care, a short-term stay at a senior living residence, perfect for those who are recovering from a hospital visit, or when a caregiver takes an extended vacation, or for a senior living trial period. Services include incontinence care for bladder-related and bowel-related symptoms. The residence supports outdoor leisure hours. The Stonehaven was built in 2017. We accept residents from the age of 62 and above. The neighborhood is nearby local churches, shopping centers, and beautiful parks. Hotels are conveniently located near the residence for residents' guests and visitors. The Stonehaven is located near a college and interaction with students who reside in the neighborhood is encouraged.

Family and resident feedback

4.3 out of 5 from 39 reviews

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★★★★★

Positive

Dynamic experience-wonderful facility and staff

The staff is happy involved and caring. My mom loves the food. The week we moved her in there was some changeover of staff in the cafeteria so it was somewhat chaotic. I'm sure that has settled down at this point. The nursing staff is very good. It took a few weeks to iron things out but no issues at this point. The activities are great for my mom and she has been actively participating in the ones she enjoys. My mom is enjoying being active again and is the happiest I have seen her in the past couple of years. Thi

Stacy SFebruary 19, 2026

★★★★

Positive

The facility was very nice. Rooms look good. Activities look good. Menu looks very good, many choices. Staff was very friendly. Tour guide new the names of all tenants we came across. At this time they have no rooms available in memory care. It is the priciest place of the Legend in Tulsa.

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4.0 / 5
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4.0 / 5
Value for Cost
3.0 / 5
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4.0 / 5
Scott AFebruary 17, 2026

★★★★★

Positive

Review for The Stonehaven

My mom started out in the memory center. The staff checked in on her regularly and tried to get her involved in activities all the time. The dinning staff tried to always make her food if she turned down everything on the menu. Everyone there was always nice and polite to my mom even when she became difficult.

Robert WJanuary 8, 2026

★★★★★

Positive

Wonderful Community

Activities are amazing! They have something every hour during the day and monthly visits from Tulsa Opera, weekly music groups, as well as therapy dog visits, painting classes and a walking club. EVERYONE we have met staff wise is friendly and service oriented. Their medical staff is proactive and any time we've had a question about anything, they have responded immediately. I highly recommend Stonehaven!

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Cleanliness
4.0 / 5
Friendliness
5.0 / 5
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4.0 / 5
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4.0 / 5
Activities
5.0 / 5
Staff
5.0 / 5
Meals & Dining
4.0 / 5
AnonymousJuly 15, 2025

★★★★

Critical

Don’t do it!

I placed my mother in Stonehaven (which was the Linden) in December of 2020- during Covid. This is something no one ever wants to do. Things started out well. My mother wasn’t completely incapable of understanding things at that time and her needs were being met. Fast forward to 2025- this place is now owned by Legends and the turnover is insane. In the beginning I used to have zero issues with contacting someone about Mom. In the end, I wouldn’t ever get calls back. Mom’s clothes would go missing. Bedding set comp

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Cleanliness
2.0 / 5
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2.0 / 5
Value for Cost
1.0 / 5
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1.0 / 5
Activities
1.0 / 5
Staff
1.0 / 5
Meals & Dining
2.0 / 5
Response from the community

Heather, this is not our standard of care. We would like to hear more about your experience so we can ensure that this is not repeated. Please give us a call at 1-877-877-3892. We look forward to speaking with you.

April 17, 2025
Heather AApril 15, 2025

★★★★

Positive

Super friendly staff

Within the first few minutes of us walking in the door, we both looked at each other and said "this is it!" Everybody was super friendly, employees and residents, it didn't smell, the kitchen was good about my mom's gluten intolerance, great activities director and activities! My husband and I have already told our sons to put us there when we need assisted living.

AnonymousNovember 7, 2024

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What we know from public sources

Care options
Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Public price status
Published starting price available
Last source check
August 1, 2026

Source-published features

Amenities and services

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Meals & dining

  • Café or Bistro
  • Private Dining Room
  • Room Service
  • Professional Chef
  • Restaurant Style Dining
  • Meals Provided
  • No Sugar
  • Pureed Meals
  • Guest Meals
  • Gluten-free
  • Special Dining Programs
  • Anytime Dining
  • Vegetarian
  • Low / No Sodium

Health & wellness

  • Incontinence Care
  • Diabetic Care
  • Memory Care
  • Medication Management
  • Staffing & Ancillary Services
  • Non-Ambulatory Care

Services & convenience

  • Complimentary Transportation
  • Uncovered Parking
  • Property Convenient to Public Transit
  • Resident Parking Available
  • Cats Allowed
  • Dogs Allowed
  • Weight Limit (lbs)
  • Laundry Service / Drycleaning
  • Grocery Shopping and Errands
  • Housekeeping
  • Beautician
  • English

Activities & engagement

  • Current Events Club
  • Yoga / Chair Yoga
  • Karaoke
  • Book Club
  • Devotional Activities On-Site
  • Walking Club
  • Bridge Club
  • Holiday Parties
  • Devotional Activities Offsite
  • Intergenerational Programs
  • Activities Off-site
  • Visiting Chaplain or Priest
  • Reminiscence Programs
  • BBQs or Picnics
  • Stretching Classes
  • Birthday Parties
  • Cards / Pinochle Club
  • Cooking Club
  • Men's Club
  • Educational Speakers / Life Long Learning
  • Cooking Classes
  • Quilting or Sewing Club
  • Choir / Singing Club
  • Bible Study Group
  • Wii Bowling
  • Catholic Services
  • Wine Tasting
  • Happy Hour
  • Dances
  • Activities On-site
  • Christian Services
  • Live Well Programs
  • Resident Band or Musicians
  • Community Service Organizations
  • Sensory-based Programs
  • Forever Fit
  • Community Service Programs
  • Brain fitness / Dakim
  • Tai Chi
  • Live Musical Performances
  • Trivia Games
  • Gardening Club
  • Day Trips and Outings
  • Adventist Services
  • Montessori Programs
  • Art Classes
  • Live Dance or Theater Performances

Outdoor spaces

  • Beauty Salon
  • Computer or Media Center
  • Barber Shop
  • Private Bath
  • Library
  • Outside Patio
  • Indoor Common Areas
  • Meeting Room
  • TV Lounge
  • Outdoor Common Areas
  • Central Fireplace
  • Game Room
  • Piano or Organ
  • Arts and Crafts Center
  • Movie or Theater Room
  • Raised Garden Beds
  • Fitness Center

Apartment & room features

  • Handicap Accessible
  • Ground Floor Units
  • Air Conditioned
  • Kitchenette
  • Garden View
  • Cable or Satellite TV
  • Wi-Fi/high-speed internet
  • Wheelchair Accessible Showers

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